Estelle Getty died today, causing this obituary to happen.

"In similar vein of take-no-prisoners elder, Getty played Sylvester Stallone's domineering mother, Tutti Bomowski, in "Stop! Or My Mom Will Shoot." Generically, it was a battling-buddy movie whose comic thrust was the diminutive Getty's bossing around her L.A. lawman son."

How necessary is it, on a 1-10 scale, to sum up what the Stallone movie was about?

SAD

Time for a blogpology*: I haven't updated this in a bit. I hate when people apologize about not writing in their blogs - I mean, a blog is just an online journal of sorts, and if you don't journal for a week or a month or whatever, no one should be like "way to not type out any observations or stories, jackass." So this is the last blogpology I will issue...savor it. Link to it, so you can, at any moment you feel you are owed an apology, go to it.

I have a good excuse: I, like many people living in Seattle, suffer from Seasonal Affective Disorder. Most people who are afflicted with SAD feel its numbing effects in the winter, while they are driving to work in the dark, working in your dark cubicle, driving home in the dark, watching reruns of Everybody Loves Raymond in the dark. It's a lack of sunlight.

But with me, I suffer from SAD during the summer. I wake up and it's gorgeous out and I want to watch DVDs. It's noon and the sky is cloudless and I want to play another game of Scrabulous. It's after work and Green Lake is full of young people exercising and playing volleyball and bicycling around and I just want to blog blog blog. I hate nice weather. It's great to look at and all, and it's nice I don't have to put on a jacket everywhere I go, but beyond that it's just the worst.

The problem with nice weather is it's so full of unused potential, you know? It is great for everything I'm not doing: Going on a date, mountain biking, sailing, living in a cottage in the Italian countryside, driving a convertible, white water river rafting, chopping down trees, etc. (Oh yes, I do enjoy chopping down a good tree. For the sake of the environment, I control this impulse. But if I had my way, look out Oakie, you know what I'm saying? Be aware, Poplar. I'm coming for you.)

Instead, I am working in an office or driving in traffic. But the WORST is that even when it's nice in my free time, I'm doing something and it's just not that great, you know? Like I'm riding my bike, and I'm thinking, I'm gonna have to say "On your left!" to that schmoe. Or I'm writing an awesome play in my notebook while sitting in a park and there's a family walking by and they absolutely love each other and the kids are playing and I'm thinking "An ant is crawling on my shoe. If he crawls on my leg he is a dead ant. The shoe is fine, but the leg is a no-no. Then he's in biting range, and that is when I'm bringing the hammer down. He's on the lace! Should I do a pre-emptive swat, or let him make his move? Come on, ant, what's it gonna be? How are you--WHAT THE--! DAMN MOSQUITO JUST BIT MY NECK! Stupid ant was just distracting me...they're working together! They are in cahoots! CAHOOTS!"

You know? I can't enjoy the nice weather, I can never just sit back and enjoy it. I like life, even though it's miserable, you want to know why? Everyone's miserable. The mother at the grocery store with three screaming children is miserable, the grocery checkout dude making $10 an hour is miserable, AND the super rich, super beautiful, super talented MOVIE STAR is in the magazine at the grocery checkout line talking about HER MISERABLE LIFE. Everyone is miserable, and we're all gonna die. It's like this guarantee, this warm fuzzy existentialism.

I read that in The Stranger, in April there was an issue with this cover story. The author basically makes a list of generalizations about Seattle based on a few friends and a couple book readings (which seems kind of, well, a pretty insubstantial subject for a cover story, but whatever). Anyway, the author says this:

"I feel like most people in Seattle have "given up on life" due to a comprehensive knowledge about existentialism but in a "good" way that doesn't feel bad at all. They wake up, go to work copywriting shampoo advertisements, go home, lie in fetal positions facing the back of their sofas, and feel beautiful and existentially awesome."

THAT IS EXACTLY RIGHT.

And this beautiful existentialism fits, usually, with Seattle's weather. It was weather that made me want to move here, actually. I was walking outside last September in Evans City, Pennsylvania, and it was raining, and I was like: "Me and the rain get along pretty good. I should move to the most famous rain capital of America." And so I did.

But it's really tough when you got all that sunlight and frolicking and hopefulness out there, like the past two weeks, oh, it's been terribly, awfully, horrifically gorgeous outside. I can't stand it.

I don't know how to cure Summer SAD. In the winter you go into a room with a light. I'm not joking - that's the cure for SAD. You stand in front of a light. It's the best cure ever. But for the summer, I don't know. I guess stand in the show for an hour with the lights off and play Radiohead? What if I get pruny?

I just don't like the heat, okay? I feel sluggish, I get sunburned, the bugs are all out. People always want to "do things" and "go out." I spend more money, gas is more expensive, traffic is worse. There's more pedestrians. TV sucks. Kids are all home and running around, and it's plain hot! Argh...

If you need me, I'll be in the shower.


*Blogpology: At the beginning of the post I thought I had invented this word! I was so excited to name the phenomenon of apologizing about not blogging, since most blogs do that! But then I Googled it and found out it's been used like a million times, so my ego became deflated. The same thing happened when my friend was pitching bank slogan ideas and I suggested "Get More Bank For Your Buck! (TM)", which I was super excited about as an idea until we looked it up and, yeah, just about every bank in the English-speaking world has used this slogan.

There's this interesting article about a businessman on his way to jail who faked his suicide. Most interesting to me is how the police started getting suspicious:

On the day that he was to report, Mr. Israel’s abandoned GMC Envoy was found along a shoulder of the Bear Mountain Bridge near the Hudson River with the message “suicide is painless” written in dust on the hood. The keys and a bottle of pills were still in the car.

When Mr. Israel’s body failed to turn up and the message turned out to be the theme song of ”M*A*S*H,” the authorities began to suspect he was on the run.

So...if your suicide note makes a pop-culture reference, the police are going to start asking questions. Note to self: If deciding to fake own death, don't write in the suicide letter "This wasn't my day, my month, or even my year."

LARPers vs. Law

What is better than a bike commute that takes you through a park? A bike commute that takes you through a park where a LARP is! A LARP is a Live Action Role Playing game, and a LARPer is someone who dresses up in awesome fantasy gear and then they fight other LARPers.


On Sunday I was riding through the park when I came upon a group of four LARPers, in the midst of a full plastic broadsword brawl. There are many terrible things you can come across as a cyclist - SUVs with giant blind spots, little children who get in your way with their stupid tricycles, etc. But then there are things/people you come across that are absolutely amazing! Midday plastic broadsword battles betwixt people old enough to vote is definitely in the latter category.

These guys and girls (yes, that's right! Girls!) were battling, while a couple smaller bands of LARPers were off a little way and I think one had a plastic crossbow. Man, the broadsword guys were totally into it though - it was a pitched battle. Two female joggers had paused their jogging to watch - I am pretty sure that amped up the male LARPers so this was one epic fight!

I rode on after a bit...not wanting to catch a stray arrow or Elvish curse. I rode down the trail - it is a dirt/gravel mix trail about the width of a car - a little ways when who do I spy snaking my direction? Johnny Law! A Seattle police cruiser inching over the gravel - sirens off. He was clearly in stealth mode - also possibly did not want to startle any dog walkers. I stopped and let him pass. (Although I am fairly sure that if I were the hero of an epic '80s adventure movie where a group of misfit 10-year-olds have to save their neighborhood from "the man", I could have popped a wheelie and jumped the cruiser.) I must say there is nothing like pausing on your bicycle to let a powder blue police car skulk through the forest - it seems like a very Northwest thing. In Pittsburgh the police only take biking trails to avoid all the city's potholes (hey-o!)

So you know what this means: The Seattle police were going after the LARPers. I don't know who fired the first shot, but underground live action roleplaying has always contended with Law and Order. (Which is upsetting because both groups should get along. Both have a rigid respect for the rules, and also, it must take the same amount of fearlessness to wear this as it does to do this. )





So what did Johnny Law want from Johnny Lives-With-His-Parents? Was the Man cracking down on Elfen contraband? Can fighting during a LARP be considered street fighting? What about street-spellcasting? Even if it's questionable to stage broadsword battles in the middle of a public thoroughfare, do the Seattle Police have jurisdiction over events that take place in the imagination? All good questions.

Sadly, I never saw what happened when the Boys in Blue met the Men in Tights. I was going to turn around and witness the inevitable conflict, but I was afraid I would get rounded up with the LARPers. Once they put my name into their police computers, certain flags like the number of Magic: The Gathering cards I own would pop up, and I'd be taken downtown with the usual suspects.